I am dedicated to becoming more mindful, less reactive to my racing thoughts, and so forth. In conjunction with this, I recently began attending several recovery groups which espouse Buddhist principles and practice insight meditation as part of an approach toward attaining sobriety. In my case, it is emotional sobriety since I have not consumed alcohol in 4 1/2 years. I have also recently started taking an SSRI, having been diagnosed with GAD.
Still, the mind is a tricky place. Yesterday, while in a very public setting, I suddenly became convinced I had lost my keys and went on a frantic search in this rather large and well populated place. I asked for help at the main office, gave my name and phone number, and called my spouse as she has the extra set of keys to my car, which was parked at this place. Only after 45 minutes or so did I do a more systematic search of my purse and THERE THEY WERE in a normally unused pocket of my purse. Gulp. Shame, embarrassment, etc. My spouse has already been wary of me of late due to several episodes of upset between us, and this did nothing to make things better. At least I was able to call her before she arrived and she turned back around and went back to what she had been doing.
I did have a better rest of my day. And ended it at a meeting with others who are overcoming various states of vulnerability and shame, which provided peace.
Anxiety is a mountain of awfulness.
Still, the mind is a tricky place. Yesterday, while in a very public setting, I suddenly became convinced I had lost my keys and went on a frantic search in this rather large and well populated place. I asked for help at the main office, gave my name and phone number, and called my spouse as she has the extra set of keys to my car, which was parked at this place. Only after 45 minutes or so did I do a more systematic search of my purse and THERE THEY WERE in a normally unused pocket of my purse. Gulp. Shame, embarrassment, etc. My spouse has already been wary of me of late due to several episodes of upset between us, and this did nothing to make things better. At least I was able to call her before she arrived and she turned back around and went back to what she had been doing.
I did have a better rest of my day. And ended it at a meeting with others who are overcoming various states of vulnerability and shame, which provided peace.
Anxiety is a mountain of awfulness.