Absolutely. Life feels totally irrelevant. I wake up every morning thinking "Ok, another day. Right. Go through the motions." There's no joy. Thinking of living or of dying, they're kind of equal... if I live today then fine, I'll do what's necessary to the best of my abilities. If I die, well fine. I can't figure out what it's like for people to wish to live as long as they can because they enjoy it. What does "enjoy" feel like?
Plus, sometimes life feels like a penal colony, too.
When it starts at 4 yrs old, or earlier... we never lived without trauma. It breaks my heart, I read what you wrote and felt so crushed you had to feel this way so young. No wonder it stuck.
Also, I agree with woodsgnome. I think there's also a strong, good, realistic way to say "hey, life is totally irrelevant". Because there's no ultimate meaning to it, much of what we do is meaningless. We stop and analyze and realize we're a bit silly. But maybe for people with c-ptsd, just analyzing deeply like that also flashes them back to their trauma, and it becomes tainted by the pain of trauma.
Plus, sometimes life feels like a penal colony, too.
When it starts at 4 yrs old, or earlier... we never lived without trauma. It breaks my heart, I read what you wrote and felt so crushed you had to feel this way so young. No wonder it stuck.
Also, I agree with woodsgnome. I think there's also a strong, good, realistic way to say "hey, life is totally irrelevant". Because there's no ultimate meaning to it, much of what we do is meaningless. We stop and analyze and realize we're a bit silly. But maybe for people with c-ptsd, just analyzing deeply like that also flashes them back to their trauma, and it becomes tainted by the pain of trauma.