The Survivors Hub - F2F support group in UK

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The Survivors Hub - F2F support group in UK
« on: July 13, 2018, 09:23:22 PM »
The Survivors Hub is a new group in the UK for people looking to connect with others working on their recovery. It is a peer-to-peer support group in Bedford co-facilitated by a member of Out of the Storm for adults affected by Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder originating in childhood, whether that is emotional/physical/sexual/spiritual and/or the result of neglect/abandonment. We understand that buried memories can return later in life with devastating consequences. We aim to provide a safe place to chat and feel emotionally supported, and share knowledge on coping strategies and skills. We find strength in solidarity and social connection, hope in the midst of despair, frustration and hopelessness. You do not need a formal diagnosis to join. Sessions are free.

Let me know if you have any questions, and I will try and answer them here.

Note:  The location/dates/times of meetings are in the process of being changed so please check back.  Updated information will be added ASAP. Kizzie - Nov 5, 2018
« Last Edit: November 05, 2018, 06:38:00 PM by Kizzie »

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Re: The Survivors Hub - F2F support group in UK
« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2018, 06:32:41 PM »
Today I gave a 15 minute speech (it was supposed to be 10 mins) about the new Survivors Hub F2F group at ACCM UK. It was filmed by a friend, and I managed to hold my nerves with the help of a script I'd prepared earlier.

Hope that it reached out to victims and survivors and will draw more people into our group. There were speakers from leading national charities at the event, and I felt honoured to be standing alongside them. I hope I sounded OK. I think the charity was happy with my performance, commenting that I was 'a strong character' afterwards.  ;D

I felt some of the language I was using was not familiar - or the norm - to other people present who work in the mental health field, people who deal with those in crisis for example.
CPTSD is definitely still a very new concept in the UK.

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Re: The Survivors Hub - F2F support group in UK
« Reply #2 on: October 10, 2018, 06:54:54 PM »
Well-done  :applause: I don't think I'd have the courage. I wish you continued success with your group.

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« Reply #3 on: October 10, 2018, 07:18:50 PM »
 :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Your advocacy will make a difference.  :applause:

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« Reply #4 on: October 10, 2018, 09:48:00 PM »
Thank you Blueberry and Three Roses for your support and encouragement.

It's taken me a long time to get this far in my recovery, but I'm here now, and I'll keep taking up whatever opportunities I can in my new role. It's pushing me outside my comfort zone.  :)

Have to say, sharing a little more about myself is drawing lovely people towards me. Was close to tears later when I was talking to my friend (in private) and saw tears in his eyes. Not used to this kind of response, not used to talking about myself and receiving validation.  :no:

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Re: The Survivors Hub - F2F support group in UK
« Reply #5 on: November 05, 2018, 05:05:34 PM »
For everyone who's been following the development of the Survivors Hub in Bedford, I would like to inform you that we are no longer operating from ACCM UK.

The charity was hugely supportive of the project, and I'm grateful to them for their encouragement and for giving me the chance to run a survivors support group on their premises.

 A couple of us (survivors) are now exploring the possibility of running the group from another location on our own, in a slightly different way. I will be back when I have further news on this.

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Re: The Survivors Hub - F2F support group in UK
« Reply #6 on: November 05, 2018, 06:39:29 PM »
Hi Anna - thanks for the update. 

I did edit the first post to mention that the location/dates/times are being changed so perhaps once you do know that info you could add it in the first post. 

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« Reply #7 on: November 05, 2018, 07:27:02 PM »
Thanks for making the amendment Kizzie. I'll be back to update you and add to the first post as soon as I have the details.