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  • WELCOME TO OUT OF THE STORM

    New Members please register here after first reading our Member Guidelines which are in place to ensure a safe, respectful & considerate community for all.  Please note that non-survivors are welcome to read, but not join the forum.

    OOTS is a recovery focused forum and information web site for survivors of relational trauma (repeated emotional/physical/sexual abuse & neglect) who suffer from the symptoms of Complex PTSD.  The forum is English speaking but members come from all around the world. As of May 18th, 2022, there have been 10,021 registrations by survivors from 56 countries

    Why We are Here: The Power of Community

    Traumatic events destroy the sustaining bonds between individual and community. Those who have survived learn that their sense of self, of worth, of humanity, depends upon a feeling of connection with others. The solidarity of a group provides the strongest protection against terror and despair, and the strongest antidote to traumatic experience. Trauma isolates; the group re-creates a sense of belonging. Trauma shames and stigmatizes; the group bears witness and affirms. Trauma degrades the victim; the group exalts her. Trauma dehumanizes the victim; the group restores her humanity.

    Repeatedly in the testimony of survivors there comes a moment when a sense of connection is restored by another personís unaffected display of generosity. Something in herself that the victim believes to be irretrievably destroyed---faith, decency, courage---is reawakened by an example of common altruism. Mirrored in the actions of others, the survivor recognizes and reclaims a lost part of herself.


    Herman, J. (1997). Trauma and recovery: The aftermath of violence from domestic abuse to political terror. New York: Basic Books

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Child Boards: General, Announcements, Questions/Suggestions/Comments, Research & Advocacy, Checking Out

Welcome to OOTS - New Members Please Start Here

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Child Boards: Member Guidelines (PLEASE READ FIRST), About Complex PTSD , Introductory Post

Development of CPTSD in Childhood

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Child Boards: General Discussion, Emotional Abuse, Physical Abuse, Sexual Abuse, Religious/Cult Abuse, Neglect/Abandonment, Addiction (Perpetrator), Personality Disorder (Perpetrator)

Development of CPTSD in Adulthood

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Child Boards: General Discussion, Emotional/Physical/Sexual Abuse/Harassment/Violence, Coercive Control, Workplace Bullying/Harassment/Abuse, Religious/Cult Abuse, Kidnapping/Entrapment/Stalking, Other

Symptoms

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Child Boards: AV - Avoidance of Traumatic Reminders (eg Dissociation), RE - Re-experiencing the Past (eg Flashbacks, Triggers), NSC - Negative Self-Concept (eg Inner Critic, Shame, Perfectionism), AD - Affective Dysregulation (eg Anger, Numbness, Derealization), SOT - Sense of Threat (eg Hypervigilance), DR - Disturbed Relationships (eg Social Anxiety, Isolating, Attachment Disorder)

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Physical & Psychological Comorbidities

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Child Boards: General Discussion, Depression, Anxiety (eg General, Social, Panic Attacks), Suicide Ideation/Self Harm, Autoimmune/Inflammatory/Oncological/Neurological Conditions, Addiction/Self-Medicating, Eating Issues, Sleep Issues, Memory/Cognitive Issues, Other

Treatment, Self-Help & Recovery

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Child Boards: General Discussion, Building Protective Factors, Inner Child Work, Recovery Journals, Letters of Recovery, Ideas/Tools for Recovery, Successes, Progress?, Frustrated? Set Backs?

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Child Boards: General Discussion, Therapy, Medication

CPTSD and Others

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Child Boards: General Discussion, Family of Origin (FOO), Dating; Marriage/Divorce; In-Laws, Parenting (Children, Teens & Adult Children), Friends, Professionals (GPs/Therapists/Lawyers...), Employment, Going Low/No Contact with Abusers

Important Days/Holidays

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Child Boards: Christmas & New Years, Mother's/Father's Day, Birthday, Anniversaries, Other

Resources

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Child Boards: Information Sheets, Forms & Questionnaires, Research , Books & Articles, Web Sites, Support Groups & Organizations, Conferences/Courses, Podcasts, Videos & Documentaries

No New Posts Country Specific Resources

Child Boards: Africa, Australia/New Zealand, Canada, Germany, Israel, United Kingdom, United States, International (English Speaking)

Community Corner

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A place to share about anything other than CPTSD - chat, a joke or interesting web site...

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Child Boards: Music, Poetry & Creative Writing, Art, Other

Admin Area

No New Posts CPTSD Course Group #1

Child Boards: Information about Group Work, Group One March 2015




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