Growing Up Again: Parenting Ourselves, Parenting Our Children, Second Edition, Jean Illsley Clarke, Connie Dawson, copyright 1989, 1998. All rights reserved. Hazelden Publication ISBN: 1-56838-190-5
Section VI The Prenatal and Birth Experience
Chapter 24 Becoming: the Prenatal and Birth Experience
Section VII Growing Up Again
Chapter 25 Ages and Stages
Prenatal (Becoming): Conception to Birth
Stage 1 (Being): Birth to Six Months
Stage 2 (Doing): Six Months to Eighteen Months
Stage 3 (Thinking): Eighteen Months to Three Years
Stage 4 (Identity and Power): Three Years to Six Years
Stage 5 (Structure): Six Years to Twelve Years
Stage 6 (Identity, Sexuality, and Separation): Twelve Years to Nineteen Years
Stage 7 (Interdependence): Adults
Stage 8 (Integration): Toward Death
Chapter 26 General Activities for Deliberately Growing Up Again
Section VIII Adoption
Chapter 27 Adoption
Adoption Developmental Chart
Appendix A Tools for Family Growth
Even and Uneven Parenting
Using Contracts
Sample Rules Chart
Getting Free of Double Binds
Encouraging Responsibility Through Language
Supporting Spiritual Growth Through the Early Developmental Stages
Appendix B Tools for Personal Growth
Developmental Affirmations: How to Use Them with Your Family and Yourself
Seeing Our Own Shields: A Visualization
Where to Go for Additional Help
Notes
Additional Readings
Index
About the Authors