We have just added a section for journals that is private meaning only those I give permission to can see and post in the group. The reason for this section is that some members are afraid of or are being stalked by their abuser(s), family, etc. The public journals are not as safe in the sense that an accumulation of information can lead a determined person to recognize someone they are trying to find. As such, we have this private section. It is also for members who would feel more comfortable having their journals be more private.
In order to be given permission to join the private section you must have made an introductory post and at least 5 other posts on the forum. This allows me to get a sense of who you are and if it is safe to let you into that section. If you are allowed to join the section and give members reason to feel you are unsafe your access will be taken away.
Please post your request to join the group below. It may take a few days for access to be granted/denied as I will review your forum posts.
Kizzie
Is it just for those with stalking issues?
Good question DD. :thumbup: It's not just for that, it's also for members who want their journals to be private. I've added a sentence about that in the first post in this thread so members are aware.
Kizzie I'd like to join the private section, at this time leave my posts public .
Thank you
Steve M
OK Steve I've added you to the private group.
I'd like to join the private group. I am thinking of also asking my journal to be private. Is that an option?
OK DD, I've signed you into the section. I can move your journal over if you'd like or you can start a new one.
Kizzie
I would like to join too but keep my journal public.
OK Bermuda, I've added you to the section. :)
Please move my journal to the private side. Thank you for all your work Kizzie :bighug:
I would like to join the private group, but I would like to keep my journal in the public section. Thanks, Kizzie. :grouphug:
OK NK, you're in :)
I would like to join the private section please. I'll just start a new journal in there. Thank you.
OK natureluvr, you're in.
Thank you, Kizzie.
I'm unable to find the private journals section. update: never mind, I found it on the main forum.
Hi Kizzie!
Can I join the private journal section, please?
thank you
OK Ghost I've added you to that section.
Kizzie
Could I join the private journal group?
Maybe one day I'll have it made public.
My thanks in advance
@ Kizzie, If it's ok, I'd like to start a journal in the private section. That way I can go through my older entries and as I process them, share my thoughts in the private journal? Please let me know what would work best - thanks!
Hi Eireanne, OK you've been added. You should be able to see the group down near the bottom of the forum now.
I would like to join the private journals please. Out of interest, how public is the not private journals? Is it available for anyone browsing the site who doesn't join, or can only people who have registered see it?
Thank you 🙂
StartingHealing - I've added you now, so sorry I missed you!
Saluki - I've added you as well. The other journals can be seen by anyone who reads posts at the forum (they don't have to be a member which is why the forum is considered public). This can be a problem for members who have someone trying to find them because the info in the journals tends to accumulate and it's easier to identify someone there than when their posts are spread about the forum.
Thanks Kizzie. Ah, okay, that makes sense.
Hi Kizzie, hope you are feeling well and peaceful. May I be added to the private journal group? Thx.
Hi Chaos, I am doing fine thanks and you?
I added you to the private group so you should see it at the bottom of the forum now.
hi, kizzie,
looks like this is the place to go for requests for the private journals. w/ everything going on w/ my D1, i've gotten nervous about writing my stuff on the forum. thanks for considering me. love and hugs :hug:
OK San I've added you to the private group. Hope you find it feels safer :hug:
Kizzie, I just sent you and email and then saw that Armee sent me this link. I don't want to put my journal in the private group, but I would like access so that I can stay in touch with my friends who journal there. Thank you.
Quote from: Not Alone on January 20, 2024, 06:14:08 PMI don't want to put my journal in the private group, but I would like access so that I can stay in touch with my friends who journal there.
;D That's how I started out. Now I mostly journal in the private group.
Hi Kizzie, I would love access to this space. The option to keep up with a few people I am more close to here. As well as a space to keep safer for more recent updates with my FOO that is better more safely shared.
OK Elph, you should have access now.
Thanks Kizzie!
Kizzie,
I would like to join this group and to start a private journal, please.
Hi
I'm a little confused. Maybe you can help me understand:
So..... The standard recovery journals at [Out of the Storm] > [Treatment & Self-Help] > [Self-Help& Recovery] > [Recovery Journals] are public? And if I want privacy, I have to ask to go one more level into a second level of recovery journals?
If this is true, Kizzie, can you add me to the private Recovery Journals thread?
Quote from: Papa Coco on February 01, 2024, 05:09:21 PMI'm a little confused. Maybe you can help me understand:
So..... The standard recovery journals at [Out of the Storm] > [Treatment & Self-Help] > [Self-Help& Recovery] > [Recovery Journals] are public? And if I want privacy, I have to ask to go one more level into a second level of recovery journals?
PC, I wrote a response here but then moved it over to https://www.cptsd.org/forum/index.php?topic=15744.msg139177#msg139177 in case you or anybody is interested.
Anyone can read the posts at OOTS Papa, it is meant to be that way so that we educate other survivors and professionals. The anonymity comes from using a pseudonym and not giving details such as where you live if you want to protect your anonymity.
The new journal section is private because some members were uncomfortable having their journals read by anyone. They felt more comfortable writing where only other members of the group could read.
Please could I join the private section for recovery journals, Kizzie? Thank you
OK PaperDoll, I've added you to the private journal section.
Hi Kizzie, would I be able to be added to the private journal section? Thanks.
OK Little2Nothing I've added you.
Thank you. Is there a special link for that?
Scroll down the index page /main page/first page of forum when you log in. Way at the bottom below the blue bar for Community Corner with Cafe and Creativity, you'll see a blue bar with Private Groups. Underneath that you should be able to see Member Journals. Click on that.
Blueberry, thank you!!!! I would have never found that in a million years! I really appreciate your help.
Kizzie,
I'm not sure if I'm in these private journals...If I'm not, can you put me in? If I am, maybe point me to where I access them?
THANKS
OK, added you ;D
Hello Kizzie :wave:
Could you please add me to this journal section? I'm hoping it will incentivise me to journal more regularly. Thanks
OK BecomingMe, I've added you to the private journal area.
Hi Kizzie, Can you please add me? There's a topic I'd like to journal about but I'm worried that it could be easily identifiable for people close to me. TIA
OK Dina, done.
Hi Kizzie,
At your convenience, I'd love to be added to the private journal section. Thanks so much!
-Cascade
OK Cascade you've been added.
Hi Kizzie, I'd like to join the private journal group. Thanks!
OK Phoebes, you're in :)
Hi Kizzie, Would it be possible to give my therapist access to my private journal? And if so how would that work?
Thanks, Chart
They would have to join the forum and we don't allow any professionals (unless they are here to post and respond as a survivor). If your journal were in the public section then they could just read it. Another option would be to save it week by week and send it to them before a session.
Hi Kizzie,
I would also like to join the private journal section, I am a private person lol. Thank you.
Kizzie, could you please add me here? Thanks
OK OwnSide and Dolly, you're in.
Thanks Kizzie :heythere:
Thank you! :)
Hi Kizzie, would it be possible to get access to this part? I'm happy with my journal being in the public section (it's good therapy).
Hello Kizzie.
I'd like to join the private section for journals.
Thanks.
Love,
Sunshine
Hi Kizzie, could my diaries be moved (or a new one restarted, not sure how this works) in the private section?
I don't think there's a big risk. But im still frightened my kid or family will find it.
Sunshine - you've had access to the private area for a while now.
Sense O and Maria - I've added you both. (Maria, I'll have to play around with things a bit to see if I can move your other journal over.)
Thank you! If it's too much of a hassle, I'm okay starting anew.
It was actually very simple so it's done Maria.
Thank you! Your work is appreciated Kizzie. You must put a whole lot of work into this site. And it really helps me/people.
I wondered how this works though, with the private journals? Maybe I'm a bit dumb. But do I just post in the same journal, but can only those logged in see it? Or is there a different place?
The private journals are in a separate place from the regular journals. Scroll down to the bottom of the page and you should see them. Only those who have been given access to the private journal section can read there.
Hi Kizzie,
I realized I've been posting in the private journal section for a while now, but I wasn't sure how to access it at first. My tech skills aren't the best, and I apologize for any confusion. I've figured it out now, and I really appreciate your patience with me while I was figuring things out. Thank you so much for your understanding and support.
Take care!
SunshineandWarmth
No worries!
Thank you Kizzie!
Hi I'd like to join too
OK Echo, I've added you :)
Hey Kizzie,
I would really appreciate being able to keep a journal in the private section.
Thanks :)
OK WabiSabi you've been added.
Thank you :) !