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Welcome to OOTS - New Members Please Start Here => New Members => Please Introduce Yourself Here => Topic started by: Celery76 on November 08, 2023, 11:54:46 PM

Title: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Celery76 on November 08, 2023, 11:54:46 PM
Have gotten a formal CPTSD diagnosis with some BPD spectrum traits?

Have been in treatment for chronic depression / S.A.D for years. (Since '94)

It was suggested by by therapist to reach out and have a community of sorts.I have never been great with groups so bear with me.

Looking for advice in staying in my zone of tolerance. Building my skill set to widen my zone of tolerance. As well as dealing with a very harsh inner critic, dissociation, and gaining my artistic streak back.

A tall order, but hopefully achievable with time.

Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Kizzie on November 09, 2023, 12:38:48 AM
Hi and a warm welcome to OOTS Celery  :wave:   You are in very good company here as most of us don't do well with groups - all part of the staying off to the side to protect ourselves and feeling different than others.  If you give it time though, members do tend to settle in feel more comfortable. 
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Papa Coco on November 09, 2023, 04:33:45 PM
Hi Celery,

Welcome to the forum.

I'm glad you found a therapist who seems to be tuned in to trauma. I hope you find this forum to be as compassionate and safe as I've found it to be. I joined two years ago, and I've gotten a lot of strength from the caring people here. We with C-PTSD often feel isolated. Alone in a crowd. Here, I know I have found people who feel the same way. I like to think as long as I feel alone with others who also feel alone, that I'm not really alone anymore.

Welcome.
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: NarcKiddo on November 09, 2023, 05:34:34 PM
Hello, and welcome. I look forward to getting to know you more.
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: LeeMarie on November 09, 2023, 11:45:40 PM
Hello there.  I have been trying to figure out how to create a post to introduce myself and I can't figure it out.  I feel so stupid trying to connect here because I can't figure out how. 
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: LeeMarie on November 09, 2023, 11:48:42 PM
Hi Celery76, Kizzie, Papa Coco and Narckiddo. 
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Larry on November 10, 2023, 10:35:26 AM
HI celery,  welcome  ;)  the support i have received here has been amazing,  you have found a great group of people  :grouphug:
hi leemarie   ;)   
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Blueberry on November 10, 2023, 07:24:47 PM
Hello Celery and Leemarie :heythere:  :heythere:
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: blue_sky on November 10, 2023, 11:01:16 PM
Hi Celery and LeeMarie,

Welcome to OOTS :heythere:
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: BecomingMe on November 16, 2023, 08:36:13 PM
Welcome Celery and LeeMarie  :heythere:

I'm new and in a very short time the kindness and support I've found here has been invaluable. And it's inspiring to see how others here are continually healing - especially when times are tough. I'm truly grateful to have found and joined this forum and trust you will both feel the benefits of taking this brave step. Best wishes
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Papa Coco on November 16, 2023, 09:30:29 PM
Hi LeeMarie,

Welcome to the forum. I was going to help you figure out how to create a new thread, but ... I just realized that I can't figure it out either. And I've been a member for two years.

I'm glad you found the forum.
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Kizzie on November 17, 2023, 03:06:55 PM
LeeMarie - To post a thread introducing yourself, just hit "New Topic" on the top right of this section.  It's the same in any section if you want to start a new thread.
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Papa Coco on November 17, 2023, 07:29:38 PM
Hi Kizzie,

Speaking for myself, I don't see "new Topic" as one of my choices. I have "Previous Topic" and "Next Topic." No "new topic."
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Kizzie on November 17, 2023, 08:46:04 PM
So, you can't be in a thread.  You have to be in a section.  So go to "Please Introduce yourself" and you'll see "Start a New topic".
Title: Re: Hello, I am new Nov 2023.
Post by: Papa Coco on November 21, 2023, 04:30:15 PM
Thank you Kizzie! I see it now.