So I'd appreciate any opinions people might offer on this situation, and I do apologize for the length of this post.
I have a young therapist , maybe 33, who told me when we started that she'd be with me for "As long as to takes." I thought that was an unwise comment that a youngster would make but , as PapaCoco noted on the site, the intent of such a comment is worth something. Over time she seemed to alternate between comments suggesting there is time and comments suggesting our time is closing. I knew the university health system had a cap on visits but she had seemed to find a way around that. We blew past the limit a long time ago. But now suddenly a limit has been reached and very shortly the sessions will end. Our most recent meeting ended with me walking out. I was really angry at being told I could not continue with her after our next couple of sessions. The thing is, she has been extremely effective in helping me gain a grip on this illness. She has been spot on about a number of problems plaguing me and their origin, and understanding the origin has been a life saver. FINALLY, I have an explanation for my crippling anxiety and depression. Her analysis makes perfect sense. She's correct and I am grateful for the diagnostic clarity. Really really grateful . But I am seriously upset about the lack of clarity on timing. Now what do I do? We unpacked all this mental rubbish and now I'm left holding the bag, not having finished the work? I am really ticked off about this. I'm trying to find my way to a perspective that allows me to finish these last couple of sessions and not hold her inept closing of our relationship against her. I like the kid. She's smart and compassionate. But she does need to improve her communication skills. So, OK, she's human and gaining experience with her job but - insert swear words here!
I have a young therapist , maybe 33, who told me when we started that she'd be with me for "As long as to takes." I thought that was an unwise comment that a youngster would make but , as PapaCoco noted on the site, the intent of such a comment is worth something. Over time she seemed to alternate between comments suggesting there is time and comments suggesting our time is closing. I knew the university health system had a cap on visits but she had seemed to find a way around that. We blew past the limit a long time ago. But now suddenly a limit has been reached and very shortly the sessions will end. Our most recent meeting ended with me walking out. I was really angry at being told I could not continue with her after our next couple of sessions. The thing is, she has been extremely effective in helping me gain a grip on this illness. She has been spot on about a number of problems plaguing me and their origin, and understanding the origin has been a life saver. FINALLY, I have an explanation for my crippling anxiety and depression. Her analysis makes perfect sense. She's correct and I am grateful for the diagnostic clarity. Really really grateful . But I am seriously upset about the lack of clarity on timing. Now what do I do? We unpacked all this mental rubbish and now I'm left holding the bag, not having finished the work? I am really ticked off about this. I'm trying to find my way to a perspective that allows me to finish these last couple of sessions and not hold her inept closing of our relationship against her. I like the kid. She's smart and compassionate. But she does need to improve her communication skills. So, OK, she's human and gaining experience with her job but - insert swear words here!