I love the cheerleading on this site. My mom is kind of covert, so I only got 74 despite living with her, though i wonder if some of it is denial on my part. Wish I had a better sense of the support network. That might be better than I really think it is. It's hard for me to tell if 'm really giving as much as I "should" because of all the guilt put on my by my mom. I tend to think I feel closer to people than they do to me, but I don't know if it's accurate or not. Different ways I've been hurt have led me to that opinion over the years. I also have very high self-disclosure because of the boundary problem stuff, so there's that factor too. Self-care was yellow, so I have that going for me!
I also found it hard to answer some of these because I was trying to go with what I feel is true versus what I know is true, so there's some difference there. Joining this board really helped with the sense of community.
Self-care 8/15
Abuse Awareness 9/15
Detachment 12/15
Support Network 11/15
Blame vs. Accountability 10/15
Anger Awareness 11/15
Realistic View of Family 13/15 (Wow, that one was surprising for some reason!)
I also found it hard to answer some of these because I was trying to go with what I feel is true versus what I know is true, so there's some difference there. Joining this board really helped with the sense of community.
Self-care 8/15
Abuse Awareness 9/15
Detachment 12/15
Support Network 11/15
Blame vs. Accountability 10/15
Anger Awareness 11/15
Realistic View of Family 13/15 (Wow, that one was surprising for some reason!)