I've always been a slow processor and when asked a question by people with authority, I often blank out even though I know the answer. I always thought this had to do with my shyness, which I attribute to growing up with two narcissist parents.
On the other hand, I think that taking your time processing things is not entirely a weakness. I have a friend and when I visit her with process so many things over the days I am there. I think that processing things that happen interpersonally is a strength. How can we always know how we feel so quickly when people demand that we do that? I really need to think things over and I don't see it as a weakness.
On the other hand, I think that taking your time processing things is not entirely a weakness. I have a friend and when I visit her with process so many things over the days I am there. I think that processing things that happen interpersonally is a strength. How can we always know how we feel so quickly when people demand that we do that? I really need to think things over and I don't see it as a weakness.