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I was diagnosed by a therapist. I'm so sorry this is going on with you. I feel you so much. My mother in law hates me. She is not anything like your mother in law though. It's my husband who does. His sister was my best friend and his parents were like parents to me. I've developed a bad alcohol problem and that's all they see. It hurts so badly. They are the only ones aware of what is happening to me. But they say it's their son and they have to back him up no matter what. He tells them I'm a drunk and a liar about what he's done to me. And they believe him. It hurts so bad. I can hardly go to my kids extra curriculars. 

I developed it as an adult. I am separated from my very emotionally and sexually abusive husband who has painted me as a drunk for no apparent reason because everyone sees him as the model husband father friend and upstanding member of the community. He tells people I'm lying about his abuse. When he admits it all in writing texts fb messages etc. No one believes me. He talks behind my back and trashes me constantly. No one he talks to will talk to me just about me. It's awful. And he says it's al in my head because of my bad childhood I "never dealt with."