In retrospect, I'm not sure how I made it this far! Probably a combination of genetics, spirituality, along with some sweet souls who were there when I needed. By all intents, I am successful professionally as a Hospice Social Worker. I am now a grandmother, awaiting a second grandchild and have wonderful Colleagues and friends.
But, I'm now 62 and I don't believe I have ever known love as an adult, by an adult. My continuum seems to be, I don't trust anyone but, love everyone. I still have days when if I didn't have some responsibility to something outside of myself, I feel I have no purpose. Over all, all my symptoms have improved but, I will still disassociate and can have emotional flashbacks in some situations. Not so bad in the scheme of my life. I am thankful for my strengths, my intuition, sense of humor and most of all, the ability to see the strength in others. I feel I am ready to move forward, to take a next step but, I don't know what that step is. I've been in this "meantime" for too long and I don't fear I'll loose all I've learned but, I'm stuck. Anyone else out there at a similar threshold, who want more but, can't seem to step out of that self that makes everything we do so much harder?
But, I'm now 62 and I don't believe I have ever known love as an adult, by an adult. My continuum seems to be, I don't trust anyone but, love everyone. I still have days when if I didn't have some responsibility to something outside of myself, I feel I have no purpose. Over all, all my symptoms have improved but, I will still disassociate and can have emotional flashbacks in some situations. Not so bad in the scheme of my life. I am thankful for my strengths, my intuition, sense of humor and most of all, the ability to see the strength in others. I feel I am ready to move forward, to take a next step but, I don't know what that step is. I've been in this "meantime" for too long and I don't fear I'll loose all I've learned but, I'm stuck. Anyone else out there at a similar threshold, who want more but, can't seem to step out of that self that makes everything we do so much harder?