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#1
Emotional Abuse / Re: How it all started
December 28, 2017, 08:50:23 PM
Therapist saw I was very much damaged and betrayed by my ex husband.I felt this Carrie Underwood song described everything my ex husband did to me, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oVEBZLrjpw4
#2
Emotional Abuse / How it all started
December 28, 2017, 06:07:46 PM
Here is how my CPTSD happened.It was from my ex husband cheating on me during our 10 year marriage,infidelity.I do admit he put me through much pain and  lied to me about it.I saw the signs he was cheating on me,I remember washing the clothes he wore the night before smelling like perfume I don't wear.Always came home the next day with clean clothes on.Plus the credit card bills showing purchases of jewelry he bought these 3 women.I asked him about the cheating and said he would never cheat on me,this was a lie.What hurt the most was when I caught him red handed in our bed having sex with one of them,this was in June of this year.I told him out of the house packing his things up not to come back like this:   :pissed: .After that I knew it was enough seeing a divorce lawyer and filed for divorce.Admit this was the best decision I made,I did not deserve anymore what he put me through.Now free of him,the divorce was in August.I am doing great moving on and my family noticed something was not right with me 2 weeks ago being very concerned.I knew they were right and began seeing a therapist last week Tuesday.This therapist saw I had CPTSD which came from my ex husband's infidelity.Good thing is I know what is wrong with me and diagnosed properly.
#3
General Discussion / Re: New here
December 27, 2017, 08:12:16 PM
Thanks and I have moved on since the divorce became final.It answered this question: Did I need to go through more of what he did to me?I knew the answer was no and deserved better.I do credit my mom helping me move on,she is a Martina McBride fan and introduced me to this song to me that has helped,  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lkkG1hGZaD0
#4
General Discussion / New here
December 27, 2017, 03:38:07 PM
Hello,I am Liz and have CPTSD.Was recently diagnosed with this and it was last week.In my 10 year marriage,my ex husband did do infidelity cheating on me and this hurt me.I went through a lot for what he did to me.I knew he was cheating on me,seen credit card receipts with him buying jewelry he bought for these 3 women he cheated on me with.Included wearing clean clothes the next day smelling perfume I never used on the clothes he wore the night before.He did lie to me about it and caught him in the act knowing what to do.I kicked his butt out of my house and filed for divorce which was in June.The divorce happened in August and I am free of what my ex husband did to me.Therapist said it was from his infidelity cheating on me.It was my family knowing something was wrong with me and they were very concerned about me.I listened to them and that is when I decided to get help for it.
#5
Please Introduce Yourself Here / Re: I am new here
December 27, 2017, 02:20:21 AM
My ex husband put me through a lot and I knew he was cheating on me with him being a liar about it.Always was gone until the next day with clean clothes.The clothes he wore the night before smelled like perfume I did not wear and use at all.Included spending money on these 3 women,seen the credit card receipts with purchases of jewelry.I did did kick him right out in June for it and filed for divorce right away.So far the therapist I am seeing knows what needs to be worked on.
#6
Please Introduce Yourself Here / I am new here
December 26, 2017, 08:55:38 PM
Hello,I am Liz and have been diagnosed with PTSD recently.It was last week.It was from what my ex husband did to me,infidelity cheating on me during our 10 year marriage.It hurt me so bad after hearing my ex husband cheated on me with 3 other women.We divorced in August and things have been better since the divorce became final.It was my family seeing something was wrong with me and that is when I decided to get help for it.So far the therapist I began seeing has been so good to me.