I really want to be supportive to everyone but I keep starting to reply to other posts and deleting because I'm struggling to find the right words. I'm working to get there. Until then I hope it's ok if I post a poem that came in my head when I woke up this morning.
**could be triggering**
INNER CHILD
There is a part of me, hiding deep inside with fear.
She's afraid to show her face because she loves unconditionally.
Her hands hold my heart and guards it carefully.
Because she knows the pain she felt, when no one wanted her.
A world of violence and hurt, is what she was born into.
She never knew what would happen next, or if she'd have to run.
Always on high alert, never having any fun.
Not what God intended, but a lesson of free will.
Going to school dissociated, feeling all alone.
Not fitting in with anyone, not belonging any where.
The normal day to day, not knowing someone should care.
But in second grade, she found her mom a job.
She would sit on his lap occasionally, with no choice in the matter.
Someone was paying her attention, but feeling very scared.
He smelled like booze and cigarettes, him crying when she was there.
She was daddy's favorite, so everyone seemed to say.
Music was her only connection, to sanity in the world.
Thank God the songs were loving, about peace and getting along.
She learned the words, singing along, which was her quiet place.
Often wondering why that world wasn't hers.
I didn't even know she was there until recently.
She felt safe one day and came out to tell her story.
No one had ever asked her and she was grateful that he had.
As if a load had been lifted, and someone cared on top of that.
I don't remember feeling as happy and carefree before that day.
But it was very short-lived and wasn't meant to be.
At least I know that she is there and I need to care for her.
Because there is no one else that ever could, that someone will be me.
**could be triggering**
INNER CHILD
There is a part of me, hiding deep inside with fear.
She's afraid to show her face because she loves unconditionally.
Her hands hold my heart and guards it carefully.
Because she knows the pain she felt, when no one wanted her.
A world of violence and hurt, is what she was born into.
She never knew what would happen next, or if she'd have to run.
Always on high alert, never having any fun.
Not what God intended, but a lesson of free will.
Going to school dissociated, feeling all alone.
Not fitting in with anyone, not belonging any where.
The normal day to day, not knowing someone should care.
But in second grade, she found her mom a job.
She would sit on his lap occasionally, with no choice in the matter.
Someone was paying her attention, but feeling very scared.
He smelled like booze and cigarettes, him crying when she was there.
She was daddy's favorite, so everyone seemed to say.
Music was her only connection, to sanity in the world.
Thank God the songs were loving, about peace and getting along.
She learned the words, singing along, which was her quiet place.
Often wondering why that world wasn't hers.
I didn't even know she was there until recently.
She felt safe one day and came out to tell her story.
No one had ever asked her and she was grateful that he had.
As if a load had been lifted, and someone cared on top of that.
I don't remember feeling as happy and carefree before that day.
But it was very short-lived and wasn't meant to be.
At least I know that she is there and I need to care for her.
Because there is no one else that ever could, that someone will be me.