Hi all,
Ever since I moved to a place all by myself it's difficult to get stuff done, because of my inability to motivate myself.
In the past, I've always wrapped myself around other people, helping THEM, and then use the extra time to do the minimal requirements of what I need (I just finished living with my mother for two years and helped her into assisted living.)
Now for the first time in 15 years I'm all by myself and every day it's a struggle. But I also don't have a routine, and I imagine that's what I need to focus on.
Basically my routine is wake up (whenever sometimes as late as 10:30 am), drink coffee, and play games on the computer (I'm retired). IF there are bills to pay or emails to send I'll do them during this time (a tiny bit of productivity.)
Then I'll eat breakfast which makes me feel sleepy and I literally will go back to bed!! Every day!
When I wake up again I feel guilty because I hardly got anything done, and then I don't want to do anything but watch TV. I'll do some dishes or sweep but since I've moved I've still got lots of boxes to unpack and haven't even hung my pictures on the walls yet.
Sometimes I get a boost of positive energy and take a walk and that makes a whole world of difference.
The thing is I have so much to do, tons of projects, things to sell on Ebay, unpacking, organizing; AND I want to be a musician and take classes and it seems that this is the last thing I'll ever get to.
HELP! Any help is appreciated. Grateful to be here. thx...
Ever since I moved to a place all by myself it's difficult to get stuff done, because of my inability to motivate myself.
In the past, I've always wrapped myself around other people, helping THEM, and then use the extra time to do the minimal requirements of what I need (I just finished living with my mother for two years and helped her into assisted living.)
Now for the first time in 15 years I'm all by myself and every day it's a struggle. But I also don't have a routine, and I imagine that's what I need to focus on.
Basically my routine is wake up (whenever sometimes as late as 10:30 am), drink coffee, and play games on the computer (I'm retired). IF there are bills to pay or emails to send I'll do them during this time (a tiny bit of productivity.)
Then I'll eat breakfast which makes me feel sleepy and I literally will go back to bed!! Every day!
When I wake up again I feel guilty because I hardly got anything done, and then I don't want to do anything but watch TV. I'll do some dishes or sweep but since I've moved I've still got lots of boxes to unpack and haven't even hung my pictures on the walls yet.
Sometimes I get a boost of positive energy and take a walk and that makes a whole world of difference.
The thing is I have so much to do, tons of projects, things to sell on Ebay, unpacking, organizing; AND I want to be a musician and take classes and it seems that this is the last thing I'll ever get to.
HELP! Any help is appreciated. Grateful to be here. thx...