I have read in a book than in any sort of group they'll always be a black sheep.
If I take OOTS into consideration I could then imagine there are people who can't fit into this group.
People who obviously need as much support as I and others need here.
An act of invalidation would be say, no, that's not possible, this place is good and we have good support here.
Yes, but, who is guaranteeing there aren't people that due to our traumas, we wouldn't be able to let them stay with us?
As I've never had been fitting in a group as a childhood, this is a concern of mine and I'm interested in hearing the oponion of this forum.
I think in order to participate in a forum a good degree of self expression is required and not anyone has that.
Some people have been abused in sub a way they may have coping mechanism witch doesn't make them compatible with the coping mechanism a OOTS member may have.
This is another logic I'm considering.
If I take OOTS into consideration I could then imagine there are people who can't fit into this group.
People who obviously need as much support as I and others need here.
An act of invalidation would be say, no, that's not possible, this place is good and we have good support here.
Yes, but, who is guaranteeing there aren't people that due to our traumas, we wouldn't be able to let them stay with us?
As I've never had been fitting in a group as a childhood, this is a concern of mine and I'm interested in hearing the oponion of this forum.
I think in order to participate in a forum a good degree of self expression is required and not anyone has that.
Some people have been abused in sub a way they may have coping mechanism witch doesn't make them compatible with the coping mechanism a OOTS member may have.
This is another logic I'm considering.