I'm looking at others and envying how they can have a "normal" full-time job, handling lots of business and people every day. I can't do what they can do, and I envy the success, recognition, and (the imagined) self-confidence that they have. Good news is that recently, I finally understood that I am in my situation because I get triggered each time I am in contact with people - self-doubt, judgment, hypervigilance, etc. So, at least I know why I am where I am. I am less frustrated. And now, I'm in the phase of feeling damaged - and because I was damaged in my early relationships, I cannot become the person I wish to be.
Sure, I imagine that many of these "normal"-looking "successful" people are probably damaged too and are damaging others along the way, unconsciously transmitting their traumas. At one point, I might be appeased by that thought. But right now I feel angry because of the injustice of having been damaged.
Sure, I imagine that many of these "normal"-looking "successful" people are probably damaged too and are damaging others along the way, unconsciously transmitting their traumas. At one point, I might be appeased by that thought. But right now I feel angry because of the injustice of having been damaged.