I am here to learn from all of you. And to let go of the good times and bad times in our r/s. She is 66 and I am 60. We were together for 20 years. When things went wrong with us, actually not very often except in the last year, I would tell her she was punishing me for all the bad stuff that happened when she was a child and into her 30's.
I have nc w her, but that is not my choice. She told me she loved me but never wanted to see or hear from me again.
Thanks to ootf, I found Pete W's book about surviving to thriving and have used it as a study guide. I am hoping to find a way to let go of the good and bad memories of our r/s so that I don't go mad.
I have nc w her, but that is not my choice. She told me she loved me but never wanted to see or hear from me again.
Thanks to ootf, I found Pete W's book about surviving to thriving and have used it as a study guide. I am hoping to find a way to let go of the good and bad memories of our r/s so that I don't go mad.