My childhood was a very lonely place. Many contradictions were true. Like for ex I was the only girl among four brothers. So it looked like I was wanted. Nope. I was the youngest so I should have been pampered with. Nope. We lived in a "safe" country but I wasn't. We lived in a house but I perceived it as a camp of bad sort. And so on.
I was the sg and the lc. Starved for food and positiv attention. Beaten by both words, feelings, and fists. The sexual abuse started with my "so called" b2 and the following year my M b = u. started.
Life made no sense in any which way I turned. And no adult ever intervened to help. Clothes that were holes in them. Too large . Not right for the season. At twelve I was picked up by my boyfriend in his car...
In 1989 ( I was 23) I told my p and b's about the abuse by their son/brothers.
And that resulted in me being excluded from the family for thirty years. (Or..since then...)
The one b3 that had been closest to me was wrongly imprisoned. And I thought that it would change things if I would help him.
I made judicial history in my country.
And he was granted a new trial after more than one decade in prison.
A few days later my m died.
On that very night my youngest b4 told me that b234 had all been sexually assaulted by a man. This happens just as I was raped the first time.
Why, why did they not tell me? Why did they take part in excluding me? Why?
It feels like a new assault.
Don't understand how I should feel about it.
It is such a coward behaviour on their behalf.
Am I wrong?
I was the sg and the lc. Starved for food and positiv attention. Beaten by both words, feelings, and fists. The sexual abuse started with my "so called" b2 and the following year my M b = u. started.
Life made no sense in any which way I turned. And no adult ever intervened to help. Clothes that were holes in them. Too large . Not right for the season. At twelve I was picked up by my boyfriend in his car...
In 1989 ( I was 23) I told my p and b's about the abuse by their son/brothers.
And that resulted in me being excluded from the family for thirty years. (Or..since then...)
The one b3 that had been closest to me was wrongly imprisoned. And I thought that it would change things if I would help him.
I made judicial history in my country.
And he was granted a new trial after more than one decade in prison.
A few days later my m died.
On that very night my youngest b4 told me that b234 had all been sexually assaulted by a man. This happens just as I was raped the first time.
Why, why did they not tell me? Why did they take part in excluding me? Why?
It feels like a new assault.
Don't understand how I should feel about it.
It is such a coward behaviour on their behalf.
Am I wrong?