HI livcurious
absolutely a tough situation that I can identify with. I am in the midst of a sudden separation process mostly of my own making and I regret my actions deeply and the impact they had on my wife. I am in a recovery program and have been introduced to the CPSTD issues that triggered my addictive behavior. I often think that my wife is taking the easy way out by separating and I know she is struggling with her decision. That said, I have to respect her boundaries and try and surrender my resentful thoughts because those thoughts are not good for me and I don't want to resent her. I do my best every day to try and wish her well on her journey.
These life surprises are tough to deal with and its really too bad that your husband can't see the impact on you. I wish nothing but the best for you on your journey.
absolutely a tough situation that I can identify with. I am in the midst of a sudden separation process mostly of my own making and I regret my actions deeply and the impact they had on my wife. I am in a recovery program and have been introduced to the CPSTD issues that triggered my addictive behavior. I often think that my wife is taking the easy way out by separating and I know she is struggling with her decision. That said, I have to respect her boundaries and try and surrender my resentful thoughts because those thoughts are not good for me and I don't want to resent her. I do my best every day to try and wish her well on her journey.
These life surprises are tough to deal with and its really too bad that your husband can't see the impact on you. I wish nothing but the best for you on your journey.