Hi guys!
It's been a long time now since I've been on the forum. I hope everyone is doing ok.
My healing process has come a long way, which I'm proud of really. Things makes much more sense now. But I really struggle with extreme emotions when it comes to close friends. Like for years I didn't have friends, but now I'm fortunate to have found two good friends that understands what I struggle with, and accept me anyway.
Even though I can talk to them about how I feel, and I never feel judged by them, I still find myself on this insane roller coaster of emotions! One minute I feel I can't live without them (!), and the next I feel anger towards them or even repulsion! And I have no idea why.. I mean WT*!?! Fortunately I do have the ability to restrain myself, and I'm not being rude or nasty to them. But the roller coaster is driving me crazy! Feeling anger is quite a new experience for me, so it is very overwhelming and triggering. I know I have to go through this anger phase. I just wish I wouldn't feel anger towards my friends, that have done nothing to deserve my anger. They've only been supportive and kind!
I'm so frustrated with myself... I hate these overpowering feelings!
Can anyone relate? I don't know how to handle this... it throws me into a dark hole, where I can't see any hope or future! I literally want to die! I know it's an extreme response, and totally out of proportion to the situation..
It's been a long time now since I've been on the forum. I hope everyone is doing ok.
My healing process has come a long way, which I'm proud of really. Things makes much more sense now. But I really struggle with extreme emotions when it comes to close friends. Like for years I didn't have friends, but now I'm fortunate to have found two good friends that understands what I struggle with, and accept me anyway.
Even though I can talk to them about how I feel, and I never feel judged by them, I still find myself on this insane roller coaster of emotions! One minute I feel I can't live without them (!), and the next I feel anger towards them or even repulsion! And I have no idea why.. I mean WT*!?! Fortunately I do have the ability to restrain myself, and I'm not being rude or nasty to them. But the roller coaster is driving me crazy! Feeling anger is quite a new experience for me, so it is very overwhelming and triggering. I know I have to go through this anger phase. I just wish I wouldn't feel anger towards my friends, that have done nothing to deserve my anger. They've only been supportive and kind!
I'm so frustrated with myself... I hate these overpowering feelings!
Can anyone relate? I don't know how to handle this... it throws me into a dark hole, where I can't see any hope or future! I literally want to die! I know it's an extreme response, and totally out of proportion to the situation..