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Recovery Journals / Re: Rainy Journey 23
« on: May 15, 2023, 04:27:51 PM »
rainy, thanks for the report on GOTG3. i've watched the other 2, thoroughly enjoyed them, but it sounds like i'll skip this one.
if we haven't been given good examples of relationships, there's no way we'd know how to choose a person to be w/ who might be healthy, mature, and stable and is working on their own issues. you didn't stand a chance, as did many of us. we go for what is familiar. my familiar was lack of emotions, and sure enough, those are the ones i picked to live my life w/. and if your H doesn't think he has a problem w/ his family, it's going to be difficult for him to break free. here's hoping, tho. i can feel how difficult it is for you to be around this dynamic. ugh!
sending love and a hug filled w/ support and hope
if we haven't been given good examples of relationships, there's no way we'd know how to choose a person to be w/ who might be healthy, mature, and stable and is working on their own issues. you didn't stand a chance, as did many of us. we go for what is familiar. my familiar was lack of emotions, and sure enough, those are the ones i picked to live my life w/. and if your H doesn't think he has a problem w/ his family, it's going to be difficult for him to break free. here's hoping, tho. i can feel how difficult it is for you to be around this dynamic. ugh!
sending love and a hug filled w/ support and hope
