thank you blueberry and alarrah. the strength i get from this place has continued to get me thru one more day.
i know worry does nothing good, but it sneaks in nonetheless. the fact that this carcinoma has not been treated for maybe 10 yrs., which was when i first noticed it and brought it to the att'n of doctors, is blindsiding me. i know already that it's spread on the surface of my scalp in 2 different ways - both the scaly patches and the tumor have grown. actually, there's another small tumor that i've just noticed a few months ago.
all the literature says that if this is caught early, there's no problem. the doc is very happy that it isn't what he first thought it was, and seems sure that it will all be taken care of. i have no trust because it's been so long. i don't know how deep it might have gone by now. there's not much meat between scalp and cranium.
crap. i'm just driving myself crazy, and i still have a month to go. i'm not afraid of dying or of being dead. that doesn't frighten me. it's what might be on the way, like pain and such, that bothers me. i've been in pain for way too long, and even this biopsy has been painful. i'm still taking advil every day cuz it's so uncomfortable even as it's healing.
just venting here, tears in my eyes. i'm ready for this to be over. time for more distraction.
i know worry does nothing good, but it sneaks in nonetheless. the fact that this carcinoma has not been treated for maybe 10 yrs., which was when i first noticed it and brought it to the att'n of doctors, is blindsiding me. i know already that it's spread on the surface of my scalp in 2 different ways - both the scaly patches and the tumor have grown. actually, there's another small tumor that i've just noticed a few months ago.
all the literature says that if this is caught early, there's no problem. the doc is very happy that it isn't what he first thought it was, and seems sure that it will all be taken care of. i have no trust because it's been so long. i don't know how deep it might have gone by now. there's not much meat between scalp and cranium.
crap. i'm just driving myself crazy, and i still have a month to go. i'm not afraid of dying or of being dead. that doesn't frighten me. it's what might be on the way, like pain and such, that bothers me. i've been in pain for way too long, and even this biopsy has been painful. i'm still taking advil every day cuz it's so uncomfortable even as it's healing.
just venting here, tears in my eyes. i'm ready for this to be over. time for more distraction.