I don't really agree that he is 'messed up'.
I think what is really going on with Richard grannon is that he is continuously researching and continually being presented with new information. That new information is always going to trump previous ideas. That on top of having an ever increasing following, he needs to find more and more ways to get this info out to a wider audience. It is a positive he is always coming up with new theories because we live in a world where mental health treatment has barely progressed or improved compared to other medicine. The people who are pushing for change are heroes in my view; whether he gets that info from an npd or not.
In saying this, I can totally see how you've been triggered by it all because I think every single person who discovers they have been abused by a narcissist goes through a 'narc hunter' phase where we obsessively hate these people. I went through a period of about 2 years where a good majority of my spare time was spent finding out as much as possible about narcissists. It wasn't completely useless...but it was extremely unhealthy.
It wasn't until the obsession subsided that I've finally been able to fully grasp the concept of emotional flashbacks.
I hope you spend more time on self help than narc hunting and don't waste 2 years on it like I did. You WILL be narcissist free if you focus on fixing YOU, and not others (please don't take offence to this...we have all been there)
I think what is really going on with Richard grannon is that he is continuously researching and continually being presented with new information. That new information is always going to trump previous ideas. That on top of having an ever increasing following, he needs to find more and more ways to get this info out to a wider audience. It is a positive he is always coming up with new theories because we live in a world where mental health treatment has barely progressed or improved compared to other medicine. The people who are pushing for change are heroes in my view; whether he gets that info from an npd or not.
In saying this, I can totally see how you've been triggered by it all because I think every single person who discovers they have been abused by a narcissist goes through a 'narc hunter' phase where we obsessively hate these people. I went through a period of about 2 years where a good majority of my spare time was spent finding out as much as possible about narcissists. It wasn't completely useless...but it was extremely unhealthy.
It wasn't until the obsession subsided that I've finally been able to fully grasp the concept of emotional flashbacks.
I hope you spend more time on self help than narc hunting and don't waste 2 years on it like I did. You WILL be narcissist free if you focus on fixing YOU, and not others (please don't take offence to this...we have all been there)