Firstly welcome, secondly, my God, you have really been through the wringer. No doubt about it. I have been here a while and I have found nothing but understanding, non-judgemental people who have gone through the same * as I, with different "inductions" into the same cptsd experience. I have felt and been safe and respected here, and I am certain that same courtesy will be extended to you. Not least because you deserve respect after coming through all of that.
Oh dear God, can I relate to that.
And that. No matter how aware I am of my triggers for EF's (Emotional Flashbacks) we are still sometimes caught off guard, by what seems the most innoccious and innocent remarks. But we are strong and we have proof of that because we are still here! A cliche I know but cliches are cliches because they are true.
When we begin to show ourselves a fraction of the endless patience and care we have shown others then we are finally beginning to find the right track. When we realise that this condition makes us ripe for exploitation and then have sensible, natural boundaries before we find out who is genuine and who is just a psychic sponge then we are beginning to find the right track.
Wishing you a far better life that you have ever had, and now that you have found your compass, why not?! - Flooky
QuoteI felt both relieved and furious at the same time.
Oh dear God, can I relate to that.
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and with a huge smile said how she and her dad loved to watch them together. I felt the tears come immediately, but thankfully was able to hold them until I got back to my car.
And that. No matter how aware I am of my triggers for EF's (Emotional Flashbacks) we are still sometimes caught off guard, by what seems the most innoccious and innocent remarks. But we are strong and we have proof of that because we are still here! A cliche I know but cliches are cliches because they are true.
When we begin to show ourselves a fraction of the endless patience and care we have shown others then we are finally beginning to find the right track. When we realise that this condition makes us ripe for exploitation and then have sensible, natural boundaries before we find out who is genuine and who is just a psychic sponge then we are beginning to find the right track.
Wishing you a far better life that you have ever had, and now that you have found your compass, why not?! - Flooky