Hi Slim,
Apologies, I had every intention to respond to your initial post, yet could not find the words that I thought would be satisfactory at the time of writing above. Wanted to think on it, and clearly got distracted somewhere else.
I have had moments of extreme anger toward my family also, and have recently come to the conclusion that they will never admit or apologise to anything. They're not capable, otherwise they would have apologised almost a decade ago.
That doesn't stop the anger though - what they did has hurt, and what they do continues to do so. So I understand when it becomes all consuming.
I'm where you are; struggling to let it go and move on. I don't know the answer, though am having small moments of success with Gromit's suggestion, which is as utterly difficult as suggested.
So apologies for the lack of advice. Aside from a remose filled apology, the sweetest revenge would be succeding at being a better human than them, and helping others lead better lives.
Still have a way to go yet though.
Apologies, I had every intention to respond to your initial post, yet could not find the words that I thought would be satisfactory at the time of writing above. Wanted to think on it, and clearly got distracted somewhere else.
I have had moments of extreme anger toward my family also, and have recently come to the conclusion that they will never admit or apologise to anything. They're not capable, otherwise they would have apologised almost a decade ago.
That doesn't stop the anger though - what they did has hurt, and what they do continues to do so. So I understand when it becomes all consuming.
I'm where you are; struggling to let it go and move on. I don't know the answer, though am having small moments of success with Gromit's suggestion, which is as utterly difficult as suggested.
So apologies for the lack of advice. Aside from a remose filled apology, the sweetest revenge would be succeding at being a better human than them, and helping others lead better lives.
Still have a way to go yet though.