Thank you all for the support. I know it is time to cut her off. No one should be subjected to what she is saying. I am human and it is really painful. Yesterday, from the time I got up to the time I went to bed (and didn't sleep) I was in a bad place. I know I should block her. However, I am afraid of the point of no return. I have also told myself that if I block her I won't know if anything is wrong in the family. If something happens to my mom she can't call me. If something happens to one of her kids, husband, or grandkids she can't tell me. Yet, I am tired of dragging my past around like a ball and chain.
I see my T tomorrow. I had been going less, but after these texts started she has started seeing me weekly again. I know it is a good thing.