I totally understand the desire to feel loved. This is something that I have struggled with as well. I know the answer is to learn to love yourself, but it isn't that easy. I really don't know what else to say, but I can totally relate. In fact, I came to a realization.
I sympathize with going to work pretending everything was okay when it isn't. I did that for a very long time. I hope you are able to relax and even enjoy it.