Quote from: EricS on September 15, 2017, 11:39:18 PM
Even though I'm an adult, I still feel that thing deep within me as the true real me, even after all these years, that it's my essential true character.
That's your power, Eric. It's mine, too. I don't remember what it felt like, but I do vividly remember one particular photograph my father took of me, from a distance and among other children, at a kids' Christmas party. We were watching a Punch and Judy -- and how anyone could have hated that little girl as my mother already did is beyond me. I haven't seen that photo for many years and it's probably been tossed out, but I remember every detail of my expression and clothing, as well as my sister's beside me.
I now believe my enthusiasm and sparkle was a threat to Mother, that she had no idea how to handle my strength of character so instead sought to crush it out of me. From my teenage years to now it has mostly looked as though she succeeded. But that little girl, and that little girl's spirit, has never really left me. Forgotten, yes, many times, when I've been so overburdened I've felt as though I couldn't take another step. But gone? No. Definitely not.
Thank you for the reminder. I'm going to end today's OOTS session now, on a high note.