Hi Barbidoll,
I'm afraid this is pretty typical, but in time you'll win this argument. Right now the emotions are running high and instinct is going to be a huge factor, it's horribly unfair I know, but time is on your side. You've done the right thing, that is the legacy that will endure and in time your son will see it. I wish I could suggest something that could change it for you now but your son will have to have his moment for now. It WILL pass. Big hugs x
I'm afraid this is pretty typical, but in time you'll win this argument. Right now the emotions are running high and instinct is going to be a huge factor, it's horribly unfair I know, but time is on your side. You've done the right thing, that is the legacy that will endure and in time your son will see it. I wish I could suggest something that could change it for you now but your son will have to have his moment for now. It WILL pass. Big hugs x