Hi Armadillo.
I really do feel for you, dealing as you are with your mother. It brings back many memories of my H. They both seem to have huge difficulties in accepting care, even when they need it, and especially receiving care from us. Your story about the bird feeders was so interesting. It was when my H was ill that I could really see his personality. Am I right, maybe, in thinking that you have experienced this?
It actually helps to see them how they are, deep down. But it is still so sad.
Keep strong. You seem to be coping with all of this with great fortitude.
I really do feel for you, dealing as you are with your mother. It brings back many memories of my H. They both seem to have huge difficulties in accepting care, even when they need it, and especially receiving care from us. Your story about the bird feeders was so interesting. It was when my H was ill that I could really see his personality. Am I right, maybe, in thinking that you have experienced this?
It actually helps to see them how they are, deep down. But it is still so sad.
Keep strong. You seem to be coping with all of this with great fortitude.