Quote from: Rainagain on May 17, 2018, 07:10:28 PM
It all seems very fraught, I am glad for you that you seem to have outgrown this environment, onward and upward Cadie.
I guess for me, I sometimes hesitate to let go because I don't want them to feel abandoned as they have been many times before by others. At the same time, being close has proven to be detrimental for me within this dynamic because Emily and Hannah still struggle so much just trying to figure out who they are and make a healthier dynamic between each other as a couple. It hasn't been uncommon, that when they argue, I hear yelling, someone banging a fist or head on the wall, screaming, and I will wake up to be greeted with one of them having self-harm injuries. (Usually from scratching their own faces or necks. It's terrible.) I hope the best for them, but it's not an environment I want to participate in anymore, even indirectly as a roommate. Maybe even as a friend. It's tough.