Hi 2Spirits and welcome.
Thank you for your introduction, and thank you for having made the effort. Such a worthwhile contribution.
And what awesomeness of you having taken these steps. Bravo!
Welcome again,
Dutch Uncle.
Thank you for your introduction, and thank you for having made the effort. Such a worthwhile contribution.
Quote from: 2Spirits on September 16, 2016, 08:18:11 PMJoin the club, I so relate to having that feeling. The best news is: and you were and are normal to begin with.
I found an online community where I'm "normal", what a relief. I experienced quite a lot of blank looks, incomprehension and "just get over it, what's the big deal" when I tried to explain myself, so with most people I gave up explaining myself and withdrew.
QuoteWhen my son was born, 4 years ago, something opened up inside myself and many feelings that had also been in me before, but quieter and easier to suppress, came out: lots of shame, anxiety, panic and confusion. For my own sake, my family and to lighten the burden I would pass on to my son, I started therapy and it took several attempts to find a therapist who is really helpful.What a confrontation that must have been.
And what awesomeness of you having taken these steps. Bravo!
QuoteThat was definitely a hard time trying to make sense of myself while two therapists labeled me as resisting, uncooperative and hopeless case. It was hard to disbelieve them and walk away, but it saved me from further humiliation.Alas, this is an experience many of us have had, and stories of it have been shared here. In my personal case, my TherapistMom has turned out to be my prime abuser, with her incessant message I was broken and needed therapy. This started in earnest when I was twelve, and has continued up to I went No Contact with her almost two years ago. It's been a relief, yet at the same time just the start of my recovery and a clear(er) vision on what really has gone on in my past and upbringing.
QuoteSo hi to you all, thank you for creating, sharing and maintaining this space for dignity and healing and for being who you are!I hope wish and trust you'll find aid and support in your recovery here.
Welcome again,
Dutch Uncle.