That sounds really tough to deal with. I'm glad you're seeing a T and getting help, that's good that you're on the right track.
I identify with the memory blockage but not to such a large extent. Whenever my dad was horrible to me / lost his temper, I would forget the order of events and I couldn't relay them clearly afterwards. I didn't understand this as I was pretty young, and I just figured that when I got overloaded with stress and upset emotions my brain would just be like "nope" and blur it out. I think I thought it was abnormal too, just something my mind done for some reason. I never realised it was a response to trauma. Jeez, I just realised this is technically dissociation, something I never really identified with when reading about CPTSD.
My life is kind of a blur, too. I identify with remembering a lot of bad stuff, and not so much good stuff, but that's probably cause I have depression so such memories were given more focus. And maybe my life was just pretty bad. I mean, it was. My mind is quite foggy now, I'm a "ditzy" person and have poor concentration. Maybe this is something to do with that, too. I am waiting to see a therapist myself so still to work a lot of this stuff out.
Anyway, I wish you all the best in healing. It does sound like you are on a good track as you have a good therapist. All the best!
I identify with the memory blockage but not to such a large extent. Whenever my dad was horrible to me / lost his temper, I would forget the order of events and I couldn't relay them clearly afterwards. I didn't understand this as I was pretty young, and I just figured that when I got overloaded with stress and upset emotions my brain would just be like "nope" and blur it out. I think I thought it was abnormal too, just something my mind done for some reason. I never realised it was a response to trauma. Jeez, I just realised this is technically dissociation, something I never really identified with when reading about CPTSD.
My life is kind of a blur, too. I identify with remembering a lot of bad stuff, and not so much good stuff, but that's probably cause I have depression so such memories were given more focus. And maybe my life was just pretty bad. I mean, it was. My mind is quite foggy now, I'm a "ditzy" person and have poor concentration. Maybe this is something to do with that, too. I am waiting to see a therapist myself so still to work a lot of this stuff out.
Anyway, I wish you all the best in healing. It does sound like you are on a good track as you have a good therapist. All the best!