the curve

[jamesG.1]

so... things were finally sorting out for me,,, then I get a message.

My ex has been found dead after falling down stairs.

I have no words

[SharpAndBlunt]

James, so sorry to hear of your loss. Please try and take care of yourself. Sending you my deepest condolences.

[Snowdrop]

Oh no. I'm so sorry.

[Three Roses]

James, I'm so very sorry to hear this! What a shock! Please take care of yourself 

[Kizzie]

So very sorry to hear this James 

[jamesG.1]

98% of people I know have raced to tell me it wasn't my fault. I did my best to stop the alcoholism but failed.

2%....

Nothing will ever come close to watching someone you love falling to pieces and having zero power to intervene and save both of your lives, but the closest is that 2% of grandstanders who assume that you played a part. 4 years after I left I am still a traincrash.

"balanced" apparently. Try living through what I lived through and tell me about balance.

And yes, she was a lovely person, but she left me before I left her. And yes, I'm angry at her for dying.

[Kizzie]

   Hoping talking here and being heard and supported will help James.

[Blueberry]

I'm sorry James.  Thinking of you.   

[Not Alone]

James, I am sorry to hear about your loss.