Confused

[Gromit]

I am confused.
Our youngest has just started at university. My H behaved quite badly before they went, I felt I could not get past his behaviour, I even have an appointment with a solicitor. But, now I have told him, and he has explained that he 'handled it badly' he does not want a divorce, he feels 'alone'.

All kinds of things came up when we were talking and I feel bad for him, and confused. I need someone to speak to, somebody not involved.

G