How to reject a friend

[BlancaLap]

OK, I made a post before, but I'm gonna delete it since I didn't quite like it. Sorry.

[sanmagic7]

i think you're right, blanca.  it sounds to me like the dynamic of your relationship with this woman possibly mirrors the dynamic of the relationship with your parents.  from what you've said, they don't help you to feel good about yourself, either.  it's something you're used to in a relationship, which would explain why you want to continue to connect with her when you're feeling vulnerable, or more like a child.

just my thoughts, blanca.  don't know if that fits for you, but i do think you're on the right/healthy path by being able to see that these are not the kinds of people you want in your life.  that's a great first step.  big hug to you.

[BlancaLap]

Big hug to you too sanmagic