I'm sorry, radical. That really sucks. Although I'm not surprised, because I've come to realize this sort of treatment is the norm. The ONLY, and I do mean only, people who can be trusted with any personal information when coming from a standpoint of malignant narc abuse, are fellow people who have experienced it and understand.
I left my church community and community to start over several years ago. It was similar in that I didn't feel accepted for whatever reason, but then, as they encourage opening up and being "vulnerable" yada yada..then they don't want to hear, believe, understand what you have to say when it doesn't fit what they think it should. The minute I moved away, my Nm changed from her church to mine, and started telling her group she had a daughter who had "divorced" her. (This was early on when I had only asked for some time and space, and that I would contact her.) Many of these people were moms of MY friends in the church. I had planned on visiting occasionally when I came to town to see my other family members, but now I just stay away entirely.
I think worse than the directly abusive (because it's easy to know what to think there), are the people who immediate jump to not believing you. Not believing your experience could possibly be. This is what I don't understand, yet have experienced over and over.
I'm so happy for you you're moving on! I bet a lot of new doors will open! And you have a choice how to start fresh. That's a nice feeling.