Growing Up Again-Clarke & Dawson TOC Chapters 1-23

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Growing Up Again: Parenting Ourselves, Parenting Our Children, Second Edition, Jean Illsley Clarke, Connie Dawson, copyright 1989, 1998. All rights reserved. Hazelden Publication ISBN: 1-56838-190-5

Section 1  Getting Started
                           Introduction
Chapter 1   Learning to Parent Our Children and Ourselves
Chapter 2   The Hunger for Stimulation, Recognition and Certainty

Section II   Nurture: the Gentle Side of Care

Chapter 3   Nurture-What It Is and Why We Need It
                         Nurture Chart
Chapter 4   Assertive and Supportive Care
                         Alike but Different
Chapter 5       Life Examples of the Nurture Chart
Chapter 6   When Love Doesn't Stick
Chapter 7   Nurturing Other Adults and Ourselves

Section III    Structure: The Firm Side of Care

Chapter 8   Structure-What It Is and Why We Need It
                   Structure Chart
Chapter 9   Negotiable and Nonnegotiable Rules:
                   Using Rules as Structure Tools
Chapter 10   The Lessons of Discipline
Chapter 11    Life Examples of the Structure Chart
Chapter 12   The Nurture/Structure Highway
Chapter 13    When Parents Disagree About Rules
Chapter 14   Structure, Shame and Victim Blame
Chapter 15    Growing Up Again-A Story of Change

Section IV   Overindulgence: Misguided Nurture, Inadequate Structure

Chapter 16   Overindulgence
Chapter 17    The Hazards of Overindulgence
Chapter 18    Why Parents Overindulge
Chapter 19   What To Do Instead of Overindulging
                   Alternatives to Overindulging Chart

Section V  Denial: The Glue That Keeps Us Stuck

Chapter 20    How We Deny: The Four Levels of Discounting
                  Discounting, Chart 1
Chapter 21   Examples of the Four Levels of Discounting
                   Stop Discounting, Chart 2
Chapter 22   Stop the Many Ways of Discounting
                   Double-Bind Discounting, Chart 3
Chapter 23   Problem Solving: Putting it All Together
                  Problem Solving Worksheet


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