darling dee,
if you feel like a problem, it's because you were made to feel like that from the 'professionals' (i use that term loosely here, as i don't see a lot of professional behavior going on, save for your t at the moment), not because you are a problem. the amount of unprofessional behavior you speak of is horrible and horrifying. no wonder you're feeling the way you do.
i'm glad your t stepped in on your behalf. perhaps she can help with the shrink and other dietician as well. becoming overwhelmed by too much information can make it very difficult to know where your boundaries are, let alone stand up for and enforce them. if that fired dietician does contact you again, you have every right to delete her emails/texts or hang up on her without reading or listening to what she has to say.
may i reinforce the notion that you were placed in the middle of a conflict because of a lack of ethics and boundaries (professional and personal) by that dietician. you did not create the conflict - it was created around you. like kizzie said, we often have to remind the professionals around us of what is truly going on.
your t sounds like a good resource to help you with this. if she can't get involved with the shrink and other dietician, maybe she can help you send an email to them stating what's happening, your concerns, how you're feeling, and what you need from them. maybe you can even do it from her office.
when you're ready, of course, sweetie. i get that you're overwhelmed right now. we are definitely here for you. you have been fighting so hard, i hate the thought that someone should come in and sabotage all your hard work, determination, and intentions. you deserve better care from these people. that has nothing to do with making waves, causing inconvenience, stirring up problems or any of those horrid voices that swim thru our heads which do nothing to help us.
you deserve it just because. you are wonderful, and deserve only the best, no matter what. love and hugs, dee.
