What kind of sexual abuse is this? trigger warning

[sanmagic7]

hey, holidayay,

i've actually worked w/ melanie tonia evans - she has done a lot of work in the field of narc. abuse, and i totally believe she has a lot of good stuff to impart.  i'm glad you found her and that her book is helpful.

i'm also so very glad for you that you found that support system and were able to speak your truth in such a validating and supportive way.  what happened to you is horrible, and honestly, the shame and guilt belong to the others, both for what they did to you and what they didn't do for you.

i'm glad you've found some relief from this burden you've been carrying.  whatever you decide to do from here on is what's best for you.  you cannot control anyone else's feelings or behaviors, and neither are your responsibility, either.   with you all the way on this.  sending love and a hug filled w/ peace of mind.