I unblocked their email addresses

[Gromit]

If my M were to do this, I would see it (nowadays) not as a conciliatory move (opening the door), but more a move to shore up her position. "I did nothing wrong but I'll be the bigger person and reach out to my overly sensitive daughter." It's a covert way of saying I'm to blame and it's up me to fix things.

Yep, H and I figured that one out! That is how it will be broadcast to other family.

Blueberry,  I am not sending it, one liners are best, let them write the essays! I am so glad I have places like this to let me vent and test things out so I can see I am not the crazy one.
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[Kizzie]