the curve

Started by jamesG.1, September 16, 2019, 11:45:26 AM

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jamesG.1

so... things were finally sorting out for me,,, then I get a message.

My ex has been found dead after falling down stairs.

I have no words

SharpAndBlunt

#1
James, so sorry to hear of your loss. Please try and take care of yourself. Sending you my deepest condolences.

Snowdrop


Three Roses

James, I'm so very sorry to hear this! What a shock! Please take care of yourself  :hug:

Kizzie

So very sorry to hear this James  :grouphug:

jamesG.1

98% of people I know have raced to tell me it wasn't my fault. I did my best to stop the alcoholism but failed.

2%....

Nothing will ever come close to watching someone you love falling to pieces and having zero power to intervene and save both of your lives, but the closest is that 2% of grandstanders who assume that you played a part. 4 years after I left I am still a traincrash.

"balanced" apparently. Try living through what I lived through and tell me about balance.

And yes, she was a lovely person, but she left me before I left her. And yes, I'm angry at her for dying.

Kizzie

 :grouphug:  Hoping talking here and being heard and supported will help James.

Blueberry

I'm sorry James.  :grouphug: Thinking of you.   

Not Alone

James, I am sorry to hear about your loss.