No Contact & Just Learned Iím Gonna Be An Aunt

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plantsandworms

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No Contact & Just Learned Iím Gonna Be An Aunt
« on: September 26, 2019, 11:16:25 PM »
No contact with any of my family and my baby brother just wrote me out of the blue to say his girlfriend is having a baby. This will be my first niece or nephew and the emotions are hitting me hard. Iíve always wanted to be an aunt and I lost that opportunity when I went no contact. Now that itís really happening the loss isnít theoretical anymore and Iím feeling it hard. But my reasons for going no contact with my family havenít changed. Feeling very sad today. And guilty and all kinds of things.

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Jazzy

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Re: No Contact & Just Learned Iím Gonna Be An Aunt
« Reply #1 on: September 26, 2019, 11:22:57 PM »
Sorry to hear this is upsetting you. I imagine it is very difficult. Take some time for yourself to process these new thoughts and feelings. Take care! :)

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Re: No Contact & Just Learned Iím Gonna Be An Aunt
« Reply #2 on: September 27, 2019, 07:34:58 PM »
Really difficult. Hearing your deep sadness.