Husband moved out last night

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Husband moved out last night
« on: April 30, 2020, 08:49:33 AM »
My husband moved out last night to stay with a friend. Im feeling very mixed right now - the grief is incredible but with that is relief and hope because anything could happen now.
Im very anxious - I struggled to get sleep last night and ended up awake feeling very ill with stress symptoms too for some of the night.
Ive been a solo mum before so Im trying to remind myself I know I can do this although  it feels more threatening in someways right now - with Covid social distancing and for other reasons.




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Kizzie

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Re: Husband moved out last night
« Reply #1 on: April 30, 2020, 03:17:13 PM »
That's a lot to deal with Lighthouse, especially in the midst of this pandemic. Will your husband be involved in care of your child/ren?

I get that mixed bag of emotions - relief and grief - please be compassionate with yourself, rest more if you need to, take self-care breaks, and talk to others/post here.   :grouphug:


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« Reply #2 on: May 01, 2020, 01:28:38 AM »
That is a heavy load. Your mixed feelings make sense.

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Re: Husband moved out last night
« Reply #3 on: May 02, 2020, 01:08:20 PM »
 :yeahthat:  sending love and a hug filled with care and support :hug:

Re: Husband moved out last night
« Reply #4 on: September 19, 2020, 12:30:02 PM »
Thank you all for your replies here. Id forgotten Id posted this and my husband returned a few days later after this post.  He has left again since and is now back at his friends house. I need to find the strength to persevere this time and to believe I can do this on my own. My youngest daughter asked if Dad could move out this time and I think that changes things a lot.