Learning to heal, Larry's journey

[Larry]

 

[Armee]

 

[Hope67]

Hi Larry,
Wishing you the best for today.   

Hope 

[Larry]

thank you hope.   

[Larry]

my wife still will not stop drinking.   i usually come home to find her passed out.  my room mate keeps my 3 dogs in the bedroom with her.   when i am home,  i am all alone.   i don't want to be here anymore.   i don't have anywhere else to go.  i don't have friends.   i don't know what to do.   i really need to hang on for another week.  maybe things will get better.   

[rainydiary]

This is a difficult time of year - I appreciate you sharing about your experiences.

[Hope67]

Hi Larry,
I think it's a tough time of year, and I know you have a lot to deal with - but I wanted to say that I appreciate the fact you're here, and I hope that you have some good things happen iand that 2023 will have some positive things within it for you.  Sending you a hug too, and wishing you the best 
Hope 

[Larry]

thank you hope !     things have been better,   my wife stopped drinking again.   i have been busy with work,  that seems to help.   starting therapy next week.   

[Armee]

 

Let us know how it goes! I'm so relieved for you that your wife has stopped drinking right now. You have a lot of strength and courage and kindness.

[Larry]

thank you armee !

[sanmagic7]

sending support, larry  love and hugs

[Larry]

i just can not keep doing this,   my wife is drunk again,    i have been asking my "friends" for help,   i feel like no one cares.    what do i have to do to get help !   

[milkandhoney11]

Larry,
I'm not sure if there's anything I can do to help but if you want to talk or want any other kind of support, please feel free to reach out anytime. I care about you and wished I could help even if it's just from afar

[sanmagic7]

hey, larry, one group that has helped a lot of spouses of drinkers is Al Anon.  it is very supportive and was created just for this situation.  you won't feel alone or  like you're the only one seeking help.  best to you with this.  love and hugs

[Larry]

thank you san magic,    i wikll look that up.   i have been doing pretty good with my own drinking.   i still have some days where i can't seem to control emotions or anxiety.  but doing mostly good i think.