Not able to fully let go

[johnram]

Hi all,

i am keen to take views why i struggle with letting go fully of my family, they have neglected and abused me etc.....but for some reason, i have this hope for them accepting their wrong and i dont know, returning to some fold and the denial system,

i spend far too much time thinking about them and not my healing - a lot of the thiunking is anger, but its still the hurt underneath

i havent spoken to my father or mother in many many years, but we have a wider family system that is in denial - and i guess i hoped they would help....its fake,....

anyway, i am rambling, hoping this makes sense to another and you can help

thanks