Not Alone: 2022

[Armee]

It's great that you are able to ask friends for help like that. Good job, Not Alone. And I'm really glad for now that it seems H is going to do the right thing with the house. You deserve to have that piece go right. 

[rainydiary]

Thinking of you during this time and glad you had some time to yourself in a different location.

[sanmagic7]

so glad you had some getaway time, notalone.  fingers crossed and prayers flying that H goes thru w/ buying the townhouse so you can stay where you are.  after all you've been thru w/ this . . . you deserve that break.  love and hugs

[Not Alone]

Thank you, Blueberry, Armee, Rainy & San. 

[Not Alone]

Court tomorrow.

[Armee]

 

[rainydiary]

Thinking of you.

[Blueberry]

Thinking of you 

[Bach]

Thinking of you Not Alone

[Moondance]

Thinking of you Not Alone 

[sanmagic7]

also with you, notalone.  best to you and standing beside you.  love and hugs

[Not Alone]

Thank you, everyone.

I'm too tired to write much. Even though it was stressful, court went okay. We were only there for about 1 1/2 hours. It felt longer. Legally, it is finished. I am divorced. I feel ill after writing that. H is still living at the house and will be until the sale of the home he is buying is complete.

I am grateful for so many people in my life who love and support me.

[Armee]

 

I don't think I have the right words. But you must be exhausted emotionally mentally and physically. I would just need to collapse into near coma for awhile. 

[Hope67]

Hi Not Alone,
You're going through so much at the moment, and I wanted to send you a big hug of support, and hope that you get some opportunities to rest and find some peaceful times for yourself to process things - and do whatever you need to do.   
Hope 

[Not Alone]

Thank you, Armee & Hope.

Today for work I had a day long training for a portion of my job that will begin in July. I knew before going that other buildings would have teams of people who have been working together. For my building, it is just me. There were moments of discomfort and feeling overwhelmed, especially in the beginning and the end. Overall it went okay and the meeting did help me to partly understand how to do some things.

When I was driving home, I thought, what a week. Court and divorce finalized on Monday and today a day long training where I'm the only one who didn't know anyone.

The house has been getting pretty dirty. I don't know why H hasn't done much cleaning (for most of the time the house was going to him), but it is not worth the stress to say anything. I vacuumed and washed two floors. One task at a time.