Numbed out turning into a depression dip

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LOM

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Numbed out turning into a depression dip
« on: October 09, 2015, 10:19:46 PM »
 :'( I try to not make mistakes because my dh will have his own meltdown with side jabs toward my failure. As he went off this time I knew I was numbing out to not feel it. He is over it in 24 hours and apologizes but days later I am more depressed because I can't fix the money mistake I made just like that.  I am wondering if I have trauma from the dh over these years of marriage that I need to process. I have remembered and processed childhood abuse but Still  in the process. I am never going to stop hurting.

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Re: Numbed out turning into a depression dip
« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2015, 08:03:56 AM »
Hi LOM and welcome.  :wave:

I have a question. Don't feel obliged to answer.
If your husband is 'over it' in 24 hours, does the money mistake/misadventure really still has to be fixed?

It's hard for you that you feel the hurting is never going to stop. I can relate to that feeling.
I hope and wish it will diminish over time.

 :hug: