too negative

[sanmagic7]

i'm in such a bad place right now, i feel like i'm just whining and i don't want to dash anyone else's hopes.   i'll be back when i feel better.  i'm just overloaded right now.  love you all.

[Three Roses]

Awww darlin', you don't need to go. Only if you need the rest.

we'll be here for you. Love you.

[radical]

I haven't found you to be "too negative".   You don't have to be anything for other people's benefit, anyway.   However you are is fine, but I'm really sorry you are feeling such a lot of pain.  Please don't feel that pain makes you not-okay.

Sometimes I have to go away from here for a bit.  It can be too much for me, I can become overwhelmed.  I hope you are able to take good care of yourself till we see you again

[Wife#2]

We will miss you while you're 'vacationing' from us. We will be so very happy to see our friend return, when YOU are ready.

[Kizzie]

Not whining Sanmagic, never, not ever when it's about what happened to us and what we lived through then and still live with now all these years later. 

I'm with Pete Walker when he suggests we need to do a lot of angering and grieving because that's what defuels the critical shaming parts and reignites our healthier parts.  That said, if you feel the need to take a break (because it really is a lot to digest and process isn't it?), trust yourself and we'll see you whenever you get back.